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How to meet men online.

Submitted by zavka » Fri 17-May-2019, 21:09 Subject Area: Human Factors	5 member ratings

How to meet men online.
And now we will talk not just about how to meet a man on the site, and how to find out from thousands of profiles is the one who will share with you all the troubles and joys. Looking at any of the Russian-speaking or foreign sites, you can see a lot of profiles, which indicate that a man wants to get acquainted with the purpose of a serious relationship or create a family. In theory, everything should be simple: if there is such a desire in a man, then you can safely begin to develop relationships and spend your time on this person. But here it is time to hang an exclamation mark with the inscription "STOP!". Before you plunge into a dizzying virtual voyage with a stranger, it is necessary to begin to get acquainted with how the male psychology works with respect to the female. Having an idea of some of the features of the male world, it will be much easier to build relationships with them.
1 principle. A man chooses a woman solely on her appearance. If it does not fit his taste preferences, then no other advantages of a woman will catch the attention of a man. In this case, the tastes of men can be completely different. There are those who like women fatter and older, and many are looking for miniature and young. Whatever your figure or eye color, be sure to find the man to whom you will be very nice. But unlike women, a man will never consider a woman as a candidate for his wife at the first acquaintance. The first impulse to get acquainted with a man is to get to know a woman better, and then how it will go. Therefore, no odes and songs of praise in his address a woman should not take to heart. A man in a fit of passion can say anything, and then it turns out that 50% of his words and intentions were not true. And all because the red button "WANT" on the scoreboard in the male mind overrides all other impulses. The good thing this impulse is short and lasts for a short time. A woman needs to take this into account and not immediately hammer her head with ardent confessions of an Internet boyfriend.

2 principle. Men's nature is always active and initiative. The more forces a man puts in the production of his trophy, the more then he will appreciate it and feel pride and self-satisfaction. That is why the easy availability of women does not make a man feel like a man and appreciate what he has. So the woman should try to stimulate a man to achieve a goal (be cheerful, happy, playful mood), the man felt the inspiration of the communication and the gradual approach to the woman. But to be the initiator of any actions, to press the man with decision-making to the woman it is not recommended at all. And even more so, to reproach his indecision. If a man is not ready to take responsibility for a woman, then he will not go to her to meet with decisive steps. The best strategy is to retire and not to disturb the man to think himself. Being a soft warm bed and unattainable Everest are two important female qualities that will encourage a man to continue the relationship. And slowly but surely, this path will lead you to your correct choice of life partner.

3 principle. All men are divided into 3 categories:
(a) narcissistic boys who require admiration, care and attention (about 35% of men fall into this category),
b) men-conquerors who are approved by overcoming difficulties (10% of the male population),
C) the so-called "undisturbed male conquerors" who are not quite ripe for a serious relationship. This type of men how, has the right arguments, but the case they bring is not yet in the state (55%). A woman should understand in her choice of a partner what she wants in a relationship: or become a mother of a big child, solve psychological problems of a man, admire his every action, give him his warmth and care. Or take a man's affection and courtship, allow yourself to be weak and indecisive in a relationship. To be able to rely on a man's shoulder. And if she was found a third option men, then she should be willing to suffer the gradual "maturing" of their partner and forgive mistakes. As a rule, men of the first category differ in that they show infantilism in relations and give a woman the right to valiantly fight for a vacant place to be next to them. Their profiles are full of photos with naked torso, biceps or they look at you with James bond gaze, casually lighting a cigar. Such men are very fond of their body, appreciate their charm and intelligence and believe that they deserve only a Queen. She also they are ready to give a gold ring on the ring finger for good behavior and manners. They absolutely do not take women's emotions, the expression of feelings. Only external luster of, calm and self-sufficiency. A woman in their understanding should be able to solve all her problems herself, not to get anything and accept what she is given, regardless of what she wants. With men in this category can very quickly get together and even get married. But will have to live only by their rules and laws. The male conqueror is very difficult to conquer at first sight. They are quite careful and appreciate their freedom. To please them you need to be quite an extraordinary person with whom it would be interesting, and talk about different topics and spend leisure time. These men and women inspires lightness, playfulness, discretion, depth, nature and development of intelligence. It is important for them that the woman had her own opinion and desires. Unfortunately, this category of men on the sites – a rarity.

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