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Dating...
Submitted by Jannet » Fri 12-Feb-2021, 20:04Subject Area: General | 5 member ratings |
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Want to be taken seriously? Fill out the form without negativity and provocation. Aggressive language is repulsive. Potential partners should not feel that you are offended by this world. Show a mature and happy part of yourself.
Instead of hundreds of photos, tell us more about what fills you, what you are happy about. And no sexy bikinis. Let the interlocutor wait for a meeting with your personality, and not with the body.
It is important to set intentions and weed out those who are looking for an easy relationship. This will save time and hassle. There are enough men and women on the Internet looking for family and marriage.
There is no need to explain why this or that person is not suitable for you. There is no need to debate whose approach to life is more correct. It is impossible to please everyone and everyone. Likewise, you cannot be satisfied with all candidates. You don't owe anything to people you barely know.
Any advanced blogger will tell you that he often removes unnecessary comments and always blocks negative users.
Call within one to three days
Say no to lengthy correspondence. It just doesn't make sense. There are people who are only interested in virtual communication. For example, these are prisoners who have added to their profile photos of some handsome man from the Internet. Instead of fictitious love, talk on the phone. In 5 minutes of conversation, you will understand more about a person than from kilometers of chatting. For example, not everyone agrees to communicate with a person who is swearing or rude.
You can get an additional phone for safety.
Make an appointment not immediately, but after 5 days
Who would you like to meet? With a person who deliberately goes to get to know you, or with someone who just suffers from boredom and is ready to take the evening with anyone? Since the goal of dating is a serious relationship, have your partner look forward to meeting you. To do this, ask to plan early dates in advance.
Meet no more than once every 5 days
If in a whirlwind romance everything starts quickly and ends just as quickly, then in our case a share of discretion will not hurt. When it comes to a serious relationship, you can't just trust a hormonal surge. So, for example, during PMS and ovulation, the chemical reaction between partners will be different. It is necessary to see the chosen one in different moods and under different life circumstances.
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